Important Life Skills To Teach Your Child

February 23, 2024

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Life Skills 101: Preparing Your Child for the Real World


As parents, it's natural to want to do everything for our children. From the moment they enter the world, we find ourselves guiding them through every aspect of life, from bathing and feeding to helping with homework and managing their schedules. However, there is a delicate balance between nurturing support and excessive involvement. While it is important to provide assistance, doing too much can hinder their development of essential life skills. By teaching them self-sufficiency early on, we equip them with invaluable lessons that will serve them well into adulthood. Starting early ensures they become more independent and capable individuals as they grow older. 

 

This Friday, we have compiled six life skills every parent should teach their children:

 

Skill 1: Decision Making 

 

Decision-making is the cornerstone of all life skills because everything we do in life requires a decision to be made. When teaching your child this vital skill, begin with basic decisions, such as whether they prefer to wear red or blue today. As your child matures, the more impactful their decision-making will become and soon they will learn about good and bad decisions and the consequences thereof. For instance, understanding that completing a project well ahead yields better results compared to last-minute efforts. 

 

Skill 2: Time Management 

 

School starts at 07h00. Netball is at 13h30. Swimming is at 15h00. Dinner is at 18h00. Our children often rely on us to get them where they need to be on time. But, the sooner you can get your child to understand the importance of being on time, and also to take preparation or travel time into consideration, such as travel time from school to swimming, the better. One way to get your child into the concept of time is to give them an alarm clock that they can set themselves. Ask them to be in charge of waking the family every morning and getting everyone going. 

 

Skill 3: Money, money, money 


Give your child the opportunity to earn some pocket money by washing the dogs or car, and then teach your kids effective money management so they can learn how to save and spend that pocket money wisely. Buying skins on Fortnight might be what your child really wants to do, but blowing all their money on a game is not a wise money decision. Teach your child to save 50% of their pocket money and then they can spend the other 50% on what they want. Note: Monopoly is a great game for children to learn and understand business and the way money works. 

 

 

Skill 4: Health and Hygiene 


In the day-to-day madness, we are always telling our children to brush their hair, wash their faces and to change their socks. But we hardly ever tell them why hygiene is important. Once they realise the facts about hygiene and why it is important for their overall health, set up a chart so that they can check off all the things they need to for their bodies each day. Creating a consistent routine will establish a healthy hygiene habit that they can take into their adult lives. 


Skill 5: Laundry 


Young kids love to work machines and do things around the house. Get your child involved in the collecting of laundry, the sorting of clothes into different colours, the putting of it all into the washing machine, the adding of measured washing powder and the switching on of the machine. They can also get involved in the folding of laundry and putting it all away into their cupboards. It’s important for our children to understand the work involved and that clothes don’t just miraculously appear clean in their cupboards. 


Skill 6: Smart Shoppers 


When shopping with your children, bring them into the pricing loop. For instance, tell your child that you need pasta. Then allow them the opportunity to look at the different pasta products on offer and to compare each by their price tag, but also considering their grammage and size. Soon your child will start noticing the difference in products and assessing their value. This will not only help them understand the differences between products but will also help them to make better shopping decisions. This ties back into two other important life skills which have been discussed: managing money well and making good decisions. 


In this blog we have covered six important life skills to teach your children. But here are two others you can consider: 


  • Ordering in restaurants 
  • Home maintenance 


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