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How to keep your child safe while on the internet

Reinhard de Klerk • June 5, 2020

How to keep your child safe while on the internet

The world today is an ever-changing organism. The rate at which new inventions in technology is developed outstrips that of even 5 years ago. No smartphone existed before 2007 and yet the technology advancement of the past decade has been so vast and has occurred at such an accelerated pace that the lowest end model of the Apple iPhone range today, makes the technological wonder of the first iPhone launched on 29 June 2007, look like a child’s play phone.
With this accelerated growth has come the advent of wireless connection to the internet and every major companies drive to make themselves relevant in an online age where there is almost instantaneous connection to the internet where the vast majority of the developed world has access to this highway of information. 
Google and Facebook, and very recently Tesla are in a race to make wireless internet available to every part of the earth and is no longer a matter of if but rather when. This means that an additional 3 billion people will suddenly have access to this super highway, with even more innovation and advancement that will happen with this. 
But what does all of this mean? Why is it relevant to an article on internet safety? Simple. The internet will become a far more dangerous place and this in a world that has become more and more tolerant of the bizarre and macabre. A world that is already desensitised to nudity and sex. How do we keep our children safe in an environment that they need to access on a regular basis for information, communication and social interaction? How do we educate them on what is safe and what they should avoid? This will become an ever evolving set of questions as companies who trade in the extreme become more and more clever on how they sell and package their goods, how they reach the innocent, to get them hooked and addicted. How do we keep our children safe from predators that are using this medium as an avenue to prey on the young and the innocent?
Research has shown that adolescence represents a crucial period for the construction of personal and social identity. Nowadays, young people create their offline and online identity as an undistinguishable and complex Self. Adolescents, indeed, construct their online identity as an integration of their physical and virtual persona (Luca Pisano et al).
It is with this in mind that parents need to be cognisant of how their children will engage socially through their online identity and be vigilant when teaching their child about online safety and how managing their child’s online time.
Parents online outlines the following practical tips that every parent can follow to help their child in an ever changing and complex IT driven environment:
Limit usage. Permit your child to have free online time (i.e.: 30 minutes right after school) to instant-message friends, play games, or visit social networking sites, but make it a rule that family time starts with dinner. After that, the computer is used for homework and it's an IM (Instant Messaging)-free zone.
Keep kids in sight. Have the computer centrally located. Your child is less likely to browse questionable content if they know Mom or Dad (or brother or sister) might walk by at any second. This helps you monitor time spent online, chosen activities, and resultant behaviour.
Do your homework. Check their browser history to know where your child goes online, and check the sites regularly. Children that know their way around can also easily get around this feature by using the browser’s incognito or private browsing mode. A parent can disable this option on the browser. Parents who are interested in this option can visit: https://www.thewindowsclub.com/disable-private-browsing-internet-explorer-chrome-firefox for a step by step guide on how to disable this feature on different browsers.
Anne Reeks in her online article adds the following advice to parents who wants to take an active role in ensuring that their children are safe whilst browsing or working on the internet. She highlights the following points:
Teach them to protect their privacy
• never to give their name, phone number, e-mail address, password, postal address, school, or picture without your permission
• not to open e-mails from people they don’t know
• not to respond to hurtful or disturbing messages
• not to get together with anyone they “meet” online.
Call on software for assistance 
Parry Aftab, executive director of WiredSafety.org, a non-profit Internet safety and education organization with several websites mentions a key point to choosing the software that will work for you: “The key is to make sure you have something that reflects your values and is just technological help, as opposed to trying to take over your role as a parent,” so make sure you can make changes to fit your family’s needs. 
These are some software tools that can be explored, but they are not free and comes with a cost, however, most offer a free trial period.
• Shutting out the smut (and other undesirables)
Net Nanny 10
https://www.netnanny.com

• Something to keep you safe online, too
Norton Internet Security 
www.symantec.com

• Keep an eye on kid’s activities
www.kidlogger.net

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