





Monique Clark • May 20, 2022
ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder that stands for attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, and sometimes called ADD (attention deficit disorder). It is very common and affects millions of children worldwide. ADHD is usually diagnosed in childhood but can also last well into adulthood. However, a diagnosis of ADHD does not mean your child’s potential is curbed – in fact, many people with ADHD are successful, happy and fulfilled individuals.
It’s very normal for children to have short attention spans, act without thinking, have what feels like too much energy (especially for tired parents), and get fidgety at the dinner table.
However, as a young child grows to the age of four or five, they can typically pay attention to others, sit quietly when told to, and control some of their impulsive behaviour.
ADHD makes it quite difficult for a child to control their spontaneous responses and actions, and this can affect everything from movement to attention and even speech. A child with ADHD might:
While these can be expected in all children at one point or another, a child with ADHD doesn’t grow out of these behaviours. They continue, can be quite severe, and cause trouble with a child’s home or school life and relationships.
As a result of all this, you can also understand how a child with ADHD might struggle with low self-esteem and feel ‘not good enough’. It’s important to support an ADHD child with love and empathy while teaching them strategies to cope, because they can be successful.
Sometimes the symptoms of ADHD can be noticeable up as early as 3 years old, but it’s usually picked up before the age of 12. It is more common in boys than girls, and different genders tend to exhibit different symptoms – boys could be more hyperactive and girls more quiet and inattentive. What’s more, the symptoms can be anything from mild to severe; it’s a spectrum that manifests in three different ways.
Where most of the symptoms relate to inattention and a child may:
Where a child is always moving or has issues with self-control and may:
Where both symptoms of inattention and hyperactivity/impulsivity are exhibited.
It’s very important to get a diagnosis of ADHD from a professional, because it is sometimes very difficult to distinguish between the symptoms of ADHD and typical “child behaviour”. Any child could show one of the above symptoms at any point, and it not be ADHD. What’s more, other medical and psychological conditions and life stressors can cause symptoms that look like ADHD, like learning disorders, mood disorders, reactions to trauma, even brain injury.
So, if you suspect your child might have ADHD, make sure you speak to your paediatrician or family doctor first. They should refer you to child specialist for a full diagnosis, such a paediatric neurologist, psychologist or specialist paediatrician.
If your child has been diagnosed with ADHD, know that effective treatment is a combination of behavioural therapy, parent education, social and school assistance, and sometimes medication. It takes a n all-round approach to help a child cope with ADHD and learn strategies for success, and medication shouldn’t be the sole treatment for attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder. These could include occupational, play or psychological therapy, implementing a good diet and exercise plan, and minimising distractions at home and in the class.
A child with ADHD is not less intelligent or talentless – your child is an individual with limitless potential even with a diagnosis of ADHD. A child with ADHD is never boring; they have lively personalities and can be a lot of fun to be around.
In fact, people with ADHD are incredibly creative and imaginative. Always having a thousand thoughts at once can enable a child to problem-solve not only successfully but also innovatively.
Because they’re usually considering a lot of options at once, people with ADHD are often open to considering different ideas and can be quite resilient and flexible as a result. They are interested in a lot of different things and, when motivated or engaged with something that interests them, they work and play hard and strive to succeed.
Just like with any child, unlocking a person with ADHD’s potential is all about acknowledging them as an individual with strengths, and enabling them with the tools they need to lean on these strengths for success.
Parenting a child with ADHD can feel overwhelming, challenging and frustrating. Sometimes it even feels like your child is in control of everything. But, there are strategies that you, as a parent, can implement that will help create an environment of communication, structure and support for all.
Knowing what to expect from the day helps your child feel safe and focused. Structure is key, so try to stick to a daily routine, even over weekends. Try to keep it simple and easy to follow, with healthy activities (and not a lot of TV or screen time).
Help your child by keeping their toys, clothing, belongings in consistent places around the house. Knowing where things are helps to create structure. It’s also a good idea to cut down on distractions in the home, so be sure to turn the TV or radio off when not needed.
Regular, healthy meals and snacks offered every three hours help to maintain structure and give your child’s body the nutrients it needs to function. Cut down on sugary food and drinks, as well as junk food.
Physical activity is not just important for grownups – staying active helps to improve focus and promotes brain growth. It also improves sleep quality. Both have a huge effect on a child with ADHD.
Always provide clear, simple instructions when communicating. Make sure your child knows how you expect them to behave and set clear boundaries or rules. Then, make it very clear what the consequences are when they are followed and broken, and follow through every time with a reward or consequence. Again, consistency is key.
Support your child in their areas of strength and help them recognise their talents and abilities – encourage every good behaviour or action. Reward them with praise (or small gifts when appropriate) when they’re doing the right thing.
Taking care of yourself is also important, so that you’re able to take better care of your child. So, make sure you’re also eating right, exercising and getting enough sleep. Find ways to reduce stress and create a support network of family, friends,, teachers and professionals. You are not alone in this! There are also local organisations you can access resources and support from, such as adhasa.co.za and adhdinsight.co.za